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About Jennifer Slingerland Ryan, Ph.D., LPC

Jennifer Slingerland Ryan is a psychotherapist specializing in attachment and self-love. With over two decades of experience, she helps individuals and families uncover patterns, heal relationships, and create deeper connections. Her passion lies in guiding people toward belonging—with themselves and others—through humor, empathy, and a touch of dystopian fiction on the side.
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Don’t Wait for The Turkey: Top Tips for Showing Gratitude to Your Spouse All Year

By |2023-04-04T17:25:01-05:00November 20, 2018|Categories: Gratitude|Tags: |

With Thanksgiving approaching, it is easier than ever for most people to reflect on what they’re thankful for. When talking about your life partner, most of us can think of myriad ways that our spouse has made our life easier, [...]

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Trick or Treat? Removing Your Relationship’s Mask before Saying “I Do”

By |2023-04-04T17:25:01-05:00October 30, 2018|Categories: Emotional Well-Being|

You decide who you want to become for the night. You prepare your outfit, plan your approach and hope to end the night with a little sugar. You dream of treats, but primarily hope you don’t end up with a [...]

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Suffering

By |2023-04-04T17:25:04-05:00September 20, 2018|Categories: Anxiety Stress Worry, Grief + Loss, Self-Help|

Recently, a fellow cancer survivor friend was asked by a publication to write a piece about an experience that she had with her journey through cancer. She agreed, always happy to spread more awareness of the challenges of this devastating, [...]

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Parent Coaching

By |2023-04-04T17:25:05-05:00August 18, 2018|Categories: Family Counseling, Parenting|Tags: , , |

Parent coaching may seem like an odd concept, and that being a parent seems straightforward in theory. You teach your children good moral values and encourage positive behavior to excel, but life can be messy and parenting is never easy. [...]

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Anxiety

By |2023-04-04T17:25:06-05:00August 18, 2018|Categories: Anxiety Stress Worry, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy|Tags: , , , |

Anxiety can be one of the most difficult and frightening mental health issues to deal with, especially since much of the disorder is self-manufactured fear. The stats say it all: over 40 million Americans are affected by severe anxiety, and [...]

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ADHD: A Neurological Disorder of the Brain

By |2023-04-04T17:25:07-05:00August 18, 2018|Categories: Child (Play) Counseling & Teen Therapy|Tags: , , , |

ADHD, often used interchangeably with ADD, is a neurobiological disorder of the brain characterized by inability to focus on tasks or follow through with tasks, or hyperactivity. It's important to distinguish life stressors which can cause these symptoms, to that which [...]

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Grief and Loss

By |2023-04-04T17:25:08-05:00August 18, 2018|Categories: Grief + Loss|Tags: , , , |

Grief and loss are excruciating. The loss of a loved one either from the death or the ending of a relationship is like losing a limb. It's part of life and something that everyone experiences at some point, but that [...]

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Recognizing and Treating Major Depression

By |2023-04-04T17:25:09-05:00August 18, 2018|Categories: Depression, Bipolar, Mood Disorders|Tags: , , , , , |

Depression isn’t just having a bad day or feeling down over something that happened at work. The difference between feeling sad and major depression is how it’s defined and how it manifests. Major depression is a state of intense sadness [...]

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5 Text-Based Ways to Show Your Partner Love

By |2023-04-04T17:25:09-05:00July 5, 2018|Categories: Book Reviews, Love Language, Marriage + Relationships + Couples|

Gary Chapman describes the idea of love languages which basically says that there are five different ways couples express and experience love, says EveWoman. The first one is through words of affirmation then through quality time followed by giving gifts, [...]

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Labeling Emotions: Why It’s a Learning Curve

By |2023-04-04T17:25:10-05:00July 3, 2018|Categories: Self-Help|

Labeling emotions, what's that? One of the hardest things I teach as a counselor is how to just feel. It seems it's written in some magic rule book somewhere that feelings aren't okay. Furthermore, the words used to describe feelings are [...]

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