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About Jennifer Slingerland Ryan, Ph.D., LPC

Jennifer Slingerland Ryan is a psychotherapist specializing in attachment and self-love. With over two decades of experience, she helps individuals and families uncover patterns, heal relationships, and create deeper connections. Her passion lies in guiding people toward belonging—with themselves and others—through humor, empathy, and a touch of dystopian fiction on the side.
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Labeling Emotions: Why It’s a Learning Curve

By |2023-04-04T17:25:10-05:00July 3, 2018|Categories: Self-Help|

Labeling emotions, what's that? One of the hardest things I teach as a counselor is how to just feel. It seems it's written in some magic rule book somewhere that feelings aren't okay. Furthermore, the words used to describe feelings are [...]

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Physical Touch vs Sex: Love Language Matters

By |2018-06-22T21:10:24-05:00June 28, 2018|Categories: Love Language, Marriage + Couples, Marriage + Relationships + Couples|Tags: , , |

Our culture, more or less, predisposes us to think of ourselves as sexual creatures. From the movies we imbibe to the books we devour, our unending fascination with and interest in all things sexual has been well documented throughout ages [...]

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Being a Single Parent and Falling In Love Again

By |2023-04-04T17:25:11-05:00June 25, 2018|Categories: Emotional Well-Being, Marriage + Couples, Marriage + Relationships + Couples, Self-Help|Tags: , , |

There are 13.7 million single parents in the US who are raising about 22 million children, based on a report released by the Census Bureau. That amounts to about 26 percent of children under 21 in America today, The Spruce [...]

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Assigning Words to Emotions: Why It’s a Learning Curve

By |2023-04-04T17:25:12-05:00April 10, 2018|Categories: Anxiety Stress Worry, Depression, Bipolar, Mood Disorders|

I’ve got this amazing ability (no, really!), to know how my clients are feeling the moment I greet them in the waiting room. All of my clients know this is true! I can feel the energy they’ve brought to the [...]

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5 Words We Need to Stop Using in Relationships

By |2023-04-04T17:25:13-05:00March 4, 2018|Categories: Marriage + Relationships + Couples|Tags: , |

There are words we all use that seem innocuous. However, some of them are nefarious whether we realize it or not. Love is strong but very fragile at the same time, so handling feelings with care is always necessary. Here [...]

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Identifying Your Own Love Language

By |2023-04-04T17:25:14-05:00February 27, 2018|Categories: Marriage + Couples|Tags: , |

“Love languages” is a specific term pioneered by Dr. Gary Chapman in his groundbreaking book The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate which provides a structured approach to understanding how love is expressed and received [...]

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Rediscovering Your Spouse: Winter Activities to Reconnect

By |2023-04-04T17:25:15-05:00February 18, 2018|Categories: Marriage + Couples|Tags: , , , |

At I Choose Change, we encourage change that lasts a lifetime. That’s why every month, we’ll take a closer look at the issues that affect you and your family. In January, we’ll focus on resolutions and starting over, then we’ll [...]

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Yearly Mental Health Check-up: Are You Sad, or SAD?

By |2023-04-04T17:25:16-05:00February 15, 2018|Categories: Depression, Bipolar, Mood Disorders|Tags: , |

Mental Health Mental Health At I Choose Change, we encourage change that lasts a lifetime. That’s why every month, we’ll take a closer look at the issues that affect you and your family. In January, we’ll focus on resolutions and [...]

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Teaching Your Kids the Meaning of Kindness

By |2023-04-04T17:25:16-05:00February 14, 2018|Categories: Gratitude, Parenting|Tags: , |

Research from Parents says kids are hardwired to be considerate and kind. They want to help. That’s their natural inclination. If that’s the case, though, why do a lot of kids seem spoiled and entitled? It might have something to [...]

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Getting Your Health on Track After the Holidays

By |2023-04-04T17:25:17-05:00February 14, 2018|Categories: Nourishing Food, Self-Help|Tags: , , |

It’s that time of the year for mistletoes, Christmas trees and brightly-wrapped gifts. And then you have the never-ending feasts—the treats and sweets, the meat, the wine—it’s no wonder people love the holidays. It’s so easy to derail your diet, [...]

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