Self Love Hub

Mental and emotional health resources to help you schedule yourself in, guilt-free. (Because therapy happens when you’re off the sofa, too.)


You’re a high-achiever who believes in the power of self-help, but…

You can’t really call yourself unhappy, but you aren’t living in a state of blissful existence. You’re situated somewhere in the middle of “What in the world is happening right now?” to “The hills are alive, with the sound of muuuusiiiiiiiic!”

But you aren’t a middle kind of person, so this life can feel frustrating. You’re probably someone who…

  • Wants balance, but can’t figure out what that even means. Does balance really exist?
  • Often feels guilt when you take time for yourself, even though you know it’s what you need.
  • Have supportive people in your life, but they aren’t like-minded individuals with the same goals that is SO IMPORTANT when you’re in growth-mode.
  • Play a million different roles but still battle with loneliness and isolation. You want a deeper sense of self-love, connection, and fulfillment.
  • Knows all the “self care” things, but still struggle to make yourself a priority.
Highly Trained + Skilled

Our online resources are developed by Master- and Doctoral-level counselors. We’ve spent years working 1:1 with clients.

Mental Health Educators

We strive to help you meet a variety of mental health and wellness needs based on the what we know about human behavior.

Why is self-care so hard?

Well, for starters…

➡️You’re stretched thin: You have a demanding schedule, work commitments, family responsibilities, and social obligations, leaving you with limited time for self-care activities.

➡️Your life roles are out of balance: Striking a balance between work and personal life can be difficult, leading to neglect of self-care due to prioritizing professional responsibilities.

➡️You have financial demands: You have financial means, but you feel guilt when you spend on yourself. You have no problem spending on everyone else.


➡️You feel lonely and isolated: You’re doing all the things, going through motions of life, and play a million different roles. You’re surrounded by plenty of people, and yet you still feel isolated.

➡️You feel guilt: You seem to think that giving to yourself means taking away from others you care about. And maybe that is what it means. But that doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

➡️You’re exhausted: Continuous emotional demands from work, relationships, or personal circumstances can lead to emotional exhaustion and hinder self-care motivation.




In the 22 years since I started my private counseling practice, I had three kids, got married, went back to school to get my Ph.D., sank into debilitating depression, grew my business, managed anxiety…and I also figured out how to make myself fit amidst all of that.

I get you.

I get having time constraints, life demands, emotional exhaustion, that keeps you saying, “I’ll get to it…,”and then you don’t.

But, what happens LONG TERM when you don’t give back to yourself? There are long-lasting effects of self-neglect:

  • Physical Health Decline: Chronic stress, poor nutrition, lack of exercise, and insufficient sleep can contribute to conditions like obesity, cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, and weakened immune function.
  • Mental Health Issues: Neglecting self-care can exacerbate or lead to mental health problems such as anxiety, depression, and burnout.
  • Decreased Productivity: Inability to concentrate, make decisions, and be productive.
  • Relationship Strain: You may become more irritable, distant, or less emotionally available to loved ones.
  • Lower Quality of Life: Enjoying activities you once loved is difficult, and life may feel like a constant struggle.
  • Self-Esteem and Self-Worth: Neglecting self-care can erode your self-esteem and sense of self-worth. When you don’t prioritize your own well-being, it can lead to feelings of inadequacy or self-doubt.
  • Emotional Well-being: You may find it challenging to regulate your emotions, leading to mood swings, irritability, and difficulty managing everyday challenges.

That’s why I’m super pumped to bring you the Self Love Hub


research-based online resources

Uncover an online oasis brimming with must-have resources and tools tailored to those who prioritize their well-being and seek to embark on a journey of self-discovery.


At the start of each month, you’ll get a challenge to focus on throughout the whole month. Each month will center around Self Love themes which help you take focused, intentional steps toward your self-care goals. Examples of challenges include:

  • Track food while logging mood
  • Fill out your Self Love Tracker each day
  • Take a walk around the neighborhood three times in a week
  • Download an inspirational podcast you love and listen 19 minutes every day
  • Buy mala beads and meditate 5 minutes a day
  • Listen to a meditation track located in the Self Love Hub
  • Read a book for pleasure and report back at the member meetup
  • Join a book club
  • Have coffee with a friend 1x per week


Access to inspiring conversations with experts who share their wisdom, insights, and practical strategies for personal transformation. Example experts include:

  • Registered Dietician and Intuitive Eating Coach
  • ADHD Time-scheduling Coach
  • Licensed Mental Health Counselor
  • Attachment-based relationship expert
  • Motivational Speaker
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapist


Connect with like-minded individuals, forging meaningful connections and building a supportive community that fuels your progress. Connecting with others while engaging in self-care and improving mental health is crucial for several reasons:

  • Emotional support and validation
  • Reduce feelings of isolation
  • Interact with diverse perspectives and insights
  • Reduce stress
  • Be held accountable
  • Boost self-esteem to help distract from negative thoughts


Carefully curated resources to help you take actionable steps toward your self-care. Print them, carry them around, and refer back to them often as reminders. Join now, and you’ll find resources like:

  • Ultimate Meditation Starter Kit
  • 100 Date Night Questions
  • 365 Journal Prompts
  • 200 Grab-n-Write Affirmations
  • Food + Mood Log
  • …and more!


Designed to develop self-compassion, mindfulness, and resilience while equipping yourself with invaluable skills that will elevate every aspect of your life. Current courses include:

  • “Mental Health Reset”
  • “5-minute Vision Journal”
  • “Self Love Starter”

PLUS, these Bonuses:

When you signup, you get everything in the Self Love Hub, plus these resources


Knowledge can be power! Learn basic signs, symptoms, and what to do when you’re up against some of the most common mental health issues like depression, anxiety, ADHD, and even trauma.


One strategy you’ll learn in the Self Love Hub is the importance of changing your environment. That includes visualization and mental rehearsal. Use the graphic motivates as symbolic reminders of what’s possible and what you’re working toward. Hang them where you can see them!


The Self Love Hub houses schedulers and trackers that you’re going to watch to use to create new habits. This will be your first step once you enter the Self Love Hub. But, when you need extra motivation, you’ll have plenty other resources to grab. The best schedulers and trackers are the ones that work! Play around with these.

Whether you’re seeking guidance, inspiration, or a sense of belonging, the Self Love Hub is your indispensable companion on the path to self-improvement. Take advantage of this essential resource for those who value self-help and personal growth. It’s time to embark on a journey of self-love, empowerment, and unleashing your fullest potential—all within the captivating realm of the Self Love Hub.

Together, we will celebrate the journey, supporting one another as we weave our own unique tapestries of fulfillment.

Get support and accountability when you join the Self Love Hub!

Choose the option that works best for your budget.

Signing up is easy. You can pay for the entire year or pay month-to-month. Take what you need from the Self Love Hub so you can feel healthy, happy, and connected to other like-minded people

Use your unique login to access the Self Love Hub library.

Have a look around the Self Love Hub. You’ll find downloadable resources, self-paced courses, and schedulers and trackers to help you fit yourself in. The goal is authentic self-love, and we aim to provide exactly what you need.

Mark your Calendar and set up your binder!

Each week we’ll provide a NEW downloadable resource, expert talk, member meetup, or counselor Q&A so you can get everything you need to be successful while you’re in between counseling sessions. Whether you join the Self Love Hub or book an intensive, we are here. You’ll be our client for life.

Self Love Hub Member Options


SLH resources are “on-theme,” meaning you’ll receive a monthly challenge to help kickstart your self-care along with a downloadable guide or template and an expert interview focused around one main theme. At the end of the month, a Member Meetup will bring members together to discuss progress and bring support.


$25 / month

“On-theme” resources, challenges, and interviews plus mental health resources, graphic motivators, checklists, goal sheets, and more!

  • Monthly Challenges
  • On-theme downloaded resource guides, templates or to-dos 

  • Expert Interviews

  • Member meetups.

  • Self=paced courses

  • 100% created by licensed counselors

  • New content added weekly

  • Cancel anytime before next billing cycle.


$199 / year – 34% SAVINGS

“On-theme” resources, challenges, and interviews plus mental health resources, graphic motivators, checklists, goal sheets, and more!

  • Monthly Challenges

  • On-theme downloaded resource guides, templates, or to-dos

  • Expert or high-achiever talks

  • Self=paced courses

  • Member meetups.

  • New content added weekly

  • Cancel anytime before next billing cycle.
  • BONUS: 30-Days of Self Love Podcast – to kickstart your self-care

Not quite sure you’re ready? Learn About the eight Self Love Tools.

Well-being, happiness, and life satisfaction boil down to these eight things. Download this guide and get started.

Everyone deserves access to quality mental health care.

What do you need today?

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