Comments on: Who’s to Blame When Nobody Likes You? http://www.ichoosechange.com/whos-to-blame-nobody-likes-you/ Love the Couch. Love Yourself. Tue, 15 May 2012 11:52:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Tom Kooning http://www.ichoosechange.com/whos-to-blame-nobody-likes-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1254 Tom Kooning Tue, 21 Sep 2010 21:25:33 +0000 http://www.ichoosechange.com/?p=487#comment-1254 Being a psychotherapist, i only could have wished to have written this article myself. Indeed spot on, warm, inviting to open up. Just can say Thank You. XX Being a psychotherapist, i only could have wished to have written this article myself. Indeed spot on, warm, inviting to open up. Just can say Thank You. XX

]]> By: Christine Bonsmann http://www.ichoosechange.com/whos-to-blame-nobody-likes-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1224 Christine Bonsmann Sat, 30 Jan 2010 20:19:59 +0000 http://www.ichoosechange.com/?p=487#comment-1224 this is a brilliant article and I only wish I'd written it myself! Thank you, absoluetly spot on. this is a brilliant article and I only wish I’d written it myself! Thank you, absoluetly spot on.

]]> By: Laurie http://www.ichoosechange.com/whos-to-blame-nobody-likes-you/comment-page-1/#comment-1118 Laurie Fri, 18 Sep 2009 14:31:21 +0000 http://www.ichoosechange.com/?p=487#comment-1118 Wow! this has so much to think about! I wish I had this info years ago. When attempting to find a good counselor I had to kiss a lot of toads, so to speak, before I found a really great one. There was even a counselor in the mix that added to my problems instead of helping me with them. It's a challenge to look at relationships to find and own my part of the garbage. If I am willing to take some credit for the good aspects of the relationship, I guess I'd better look at my part of the bad. That opens the door to be vulnerable to myself when my instinct is to protect myself. But I guess, that is the pathway to growth eh? Wow! this has so much to think about! I wish I had this info years ago. When attempting to find a good counselor I had to kiss a lot of toads, so to speak, before I found a really great one. There was even a counselor in the mix that added to my problems instead of helping me with them.

It’s a challenge to look at relationships to find and own my part of the garbage. If I am willing to take some credit for the good aspects of the relationship, I guess I’d better look at my part of the bad. That opens the door to be vulnerable to myself when my instinct is to protect myself. But I guess, that is the pathway to growth eh?

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