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Depression,
Anxiety, and... Boredom? It’s
not unusual to hear about the dangers related to situations such as
illegal
drugs, alcohol abuse, addition to pornography, and teenage sex.
All of these
situations can lead to unhealthy lifestyles or consequences that take a
toil on
physical and mental health. Today, I want to point out something that
doesn’t
ever seem to be included in the “dangerous” category even though it can
cause
just as many problems as these other issues can. Surprisingly, what I’m
talking
about, is boredom. Now
I know that the title of this article is “An Unacknowledged Danger.” This is
somewhat misleading although I stick by my decision to use these words.
You
see, there is quite a bit of research on boredom – what it actually is,
what
causes it, and how it affects our bodies. But even though this research
is
there, you don’t hear much about boredom, and certainly not in relation
to how
it can hurt us. So in many ways this “mood” and what it causes is
unacknowledged. I’m
sure you know people (or are one of those people) who learned, as a
child,
never to say, “I’m bored…there’s nothing to do.” That’s
because your mom or grandmother or
aunt instantly placed a broom in your hand or gave you some other chore
to keep
you busy. Although
this usually stopped the complaints, it turns out that there is a
better
solution. I’ll get to that in a second. But
first, let’s discuss the bad effects of boredom. You see, people who
are bored
are at greater risk of developing anxiety, depression, and drug or
alcohol
addiction; displays of anger, aggressive behaviour and lack of
interpersonal
skills; and poor performance at work and school. (Stephen Vodanovich,
University of West Florida) Simple boredom can cause all of this?!
Shocking?
Read on… Many
people, especially men, attribute boredom to a lack of excitement in
their
environment. But this is actually part of the problem, not the
cause of
boredom. Our brains are constantly searching for external stimuli that
excites
us, that is new to us. Yet when our brains get that, they just want
more and
more. It turns out they’re quite greedy in that respect. This need for
more and
more external stimuli causes a type of “chaos” in the brain, a longing
for
external excitement that drives people towards destructive behaviour.
So this
begs the question, if more novelty doesn’t quench boredom, what does? Oddly
enough, it turns out that the solution to this uneasy state isn’t more
activity; it’s less. A current study from Scientific
American Mind found that low levels of distraction may cause people
to
label an activity as boring. On the other hand, participants who didn’t
have
any distractions found more enjoyment in the exact same activity. This
supports a few theories regarding attention and boredom. One
theory says that
boredom is essentially the struggle to maintain attention…in essence,
“to go
within.” Another theory touted by Waterloo Psychologist, Al Cheyne,
says that, “Attention
is the common link between lack of meaning, depression, and boredom.”
So in
other words, boredom may be caused in part by a lack of attention.
Another way
to say this is that distraction may cause boredom. So
here’s the way I look at it. If being in a state of boredom brings
about
negative consequences to our body, mind, and possibly our futures
then we need
to find ways to stay away from it. And if attention is the solution to
boredom,
we need to increase our capacity and ability to pay attention. Although I know this sounds like an
uncomplicated answer to a complicated issue, it really makes perfect
sense.
Attention is linked with the ancient practices of yoga and meditation
which are
considered by many to be as necessary as eating food or drinking water
for
vitality and health. And attention is linked with many spiritual
practices such
as prayer, fasting, and sacred ceremonies; things that cause peace and
contentment for many. Since
this “skill” is so valuable, let’s try and nurture it so that we can
grow in
our ability to pay attention. Here are my suggestions to do just that:
So,
the next time you are bored, it turns
out that you don’t need to find something to do. Instead, just
be. Just be
aware of the moment and sit with it. As crazy as it sounds, doing
nothing may
stop complaints such as: “There’s
nothing to do; I’m bored!” © 2008 I Choose Change WANT TO SEE MORE ARTICLES LIKE THIS
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